Quickie

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Quickies are short, spontaneous sex without long foreplay, where the whole point is a quick burst of passion. Usually everything happens in 5-7 minutes, and the main goal is not to stretch the pleasure, but to squeeze out maximum emotions in a short time. This format can include full intercourse, oral sex or any other form of quick stimulation that brings at least one partner to orgasm.

The main draw of quickies is the suddenness and energy of the moment. It's not a case of having time for candles and massages, but everything happens “here and now”, and that's the thrill. However, opinions about quickies are divided. Some believe that it's more “convenient” for men, because women have a different physiology and may need more time to get aroused; while on the other hand, quickie intimacy can be very arousing for women as well, if you tune in to your partner's wave and add a little preparation.

If you practice quickies and want both of you to be comfortable, especially the woman, it is worth taking care of intimate lubrication beforehand - because the body may not have time to react with natural moisturizing. The right lubricant makes even the quickest encounter pleasant and safe.

How the quickie came to be: a little history about spontaneous sex

As cities began to grow and the pace of life accelerated, people had less time for romance and long courtships; in this sense, with the hustle and bustle of the city, there was a demand for more spontaneous and shorter forms of sexual contact. The sexual revolution of the 60s and 70s gave a special impetus to freedom in this area. People began to talk much more openly about sex, and began to perceive intimacy as a natural part of life, not only as an act within marriage. This changed everything - it became possible to enjoy pleasure without being tied to a commitment.

With the rise of the internet and the advent of mobile apps like Tinder, Bumble and others, hookups became even more accessible. People began to meet, date and have sex in just a few hours - without the need to build a long-term relationship. Essentially, technology made it possible to quickly find those on the same wavelength and have fun in the here and now.

As a result, quickies have become a normal part of sexual culture in today's world. They reflect a shift in the perception of sex - from a taboo topic to a free, personal and different practice for everyone. For some it's just an express pleasure, or a way to feel a lively passion, and for others it's a format where you can be yourself without complications.

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The secret of a really successful quickie: how to make it fast but good quality

Mutual arousal is key

The most important factor in a successful quickie is the synchronization of desire, since if one partner is not in the mood or not yet “warmed up”, a quick intimacy can leave him with a feeling of dissatisfaction. Therefore, the ideal quickie is the moment when the spark strikes both of them at once; it could be a sudden glance, a touch in the elevator, an arousing whisper in his ear, or a sexy text message before meeting. True arousal can happen in seconds - but it has to be mutual.

Mini foreplay is a must

Although time is short, you shouldn't completely abandon preparation. Even short foreplay - in the form of kissing, stimulation of erogenous zones, touching breasts or clitoris - can accelerate arousal. This is especially important for women: their bodies physiologically take a little longer to turn on, especially when it comes to natural lubrication. Using a lubricant is a smart decision that will eliminate discomfort and make even brief sex enjoyable and safe.

Fast ≠ rough

Quick doesn't mean sloppy, so a quickie is not “break in and out” but a concentrated portion of passion. Be careful: even in a short period of time you can put the maximum of emotions, touching, dominance or, on the contrary, tenderness. The main thing is to understand the goal: not just to discharge, but to do well together. Coordinated movements, confidence and knowledge of a partner's preferences make even 5 minutes really bright.

Positions and location - practical and arousing

The choice of pose matters too. A quickie is valued for being easy and quick: from behind, standing, on your knees, on the table, in the car - there are tons of options. The main thing is that you should be comfortable and nothing distracts from the process. Keep in mind that it’s better to avoid complex acrobatic combinations, so immediately choose the position that allows deep penetration and maximum stimulation.

Completion and aftertaste

Orgasm is not the only criteria for success, especially in quickies. It is more important that after the quickie both feel an emotional response - smile, lightness, excitement, desire to repeat. Even if the whole thing lasted six minutes, you can walk away feeling: “That was hot as hell.”

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Where to have a good Quickie 

• In the shower: A great way to combine hygiene with pleasure. Warm water, slippery bodies, drops on your skin - it all just gets you hotter. But don't forget about safety: tiles are slippery, and injuries are not uncommon here. It's better to put a non-slip mat or lean against the wall beforehand.
• In the car: Good old classic. It’s important to find a place where no one is in the way. At night everything looks especially atmospheric: darkness, limited space, fogged windows - all this adds to the adrenaline.
• In bed: Quick sex before bed or right after waking up is the perfect way to start or end the day. It requires no preparation, is comfortable and familiar. Best part is that morning sex also boosts your happy hormones for the day.
• In the kitchen: While the kettle is boiling or eggs are frying, you can have an equally hot moment. The kitchen table, chair or even the refrigerator - everything can play its role. 
• In the office or at work: If conditions allow and you are sure you won't get caught, it can be a real explosion of emotions. A bathroom, a back room, an empty office or even a closed meeting room - a little daring, a little risk, and a banal day turns into an erotic adventure.
• In the living room: Watching a TV series or a casual evening conversation can easily turn into a racious quickie. Sofa, armchair or even the floor - cozy, warm and homely comfortable.

Why quickies are a cool practice

Quickie sex is often underestimated, but it can actually be a great tool for maintaining passion and intimacy in a couple. First of all, it gives instant pleasure, which is ideal when there is no time for long foreplay and the desire is already off the charts. In the conditions of the frantic rhythm of life, it is a kind of intimate “snack” that helps to release tension, quickly engage in bodily sensations and just get a discharge.

In addition, quickies bring the element of surprise into the relationship. When sex happens suddenly, out of the plan and without preparation, it fuels emotions, causes a rush of adrenaline and makes the intimacy itself more intense. Couples who know how to catch such moments, often feel that between them grows not only physical, but also emotional attraction.

One should not forget about diversity, when a relationship gets quickies into their daily life, the routine disappears. This adds excitement, creates space for play and flirtation, allows you to rethink intimate life from a new side. Even 5-7 minutes of unexpected passion can be more powerful than an hour of scheduled sex. Quickies also help keep sexual contact alive even on busy days when there just isn't enough time; so it's a way to say to each other, “I care about you” - without long words. This format is especially convenient when a couple lives together and there's no way to have a full-blown date night every day.

Understand that quick sexual encounters create physical impacts which should not be underestimated. First, the act of fast sex produces endorphins along with other types of sexual interaction due to hormonal changes in the body. Additionally, the physical act of quick sex releases thoughts while improving feelings and lowering stress completely. Finally, this version of sexual activities generates exactly what some people require to spice up their mornings or add romantic pleasures to their evenings.

Possible disadvantages of quickie sex

Quickies are cool, passionate and spontaneous, but like any sexual practice, it has its disadvantages. If you get too carried away and make quickie sex the only format of intimacy, you can eventually feel like something is being lost. This is because frequent “hastily” contacts without foreplay and emotional immersion, can reduce the level of intimacy between partners. This is not critical if there is room for longer and more sensual intimacy at other times, but it's still important to keep a balance in mind.

Another consideration is different expectations. If one of the partners enjoys a quickie and the other needs more time to “turn on” and reach orgasm, sooner or later there will be frustration. In such cases, it is important to openly discuss preferences and find a comfortable pace that will suit both.

Logistical difficulties cannot be ignored either. Quick sex outside the house - in the car, in the kitchen, in the shower or in general in a public place - can be a turn-on, but requires certain conditions. The risk that someone might suddenly walk in or notice heats up the atmosphere for some, but can flat out kill the excitement for others.

Also, quickies don't always allow for a vivid finale for both; when everything happens quickly, someone may simply not have time to reach the peak, and here the thing is not only time, but the quality and accuracy of stimulation. Keep in mind that fast sex does not mean inattentive. Sometimes in 5 minutes you can orgasm, and sometimes - not, and this is normal, but it is better to understand in advance how the partner's body works.

In a hurry, foreplay is often ignored, and without it, especially for women, it can be difficult to turn on physiologically. Lubricants may not have time to secrete muscles - not to relax, and as a result, instead of pleasure will be dry and sharp. That's why it's better to set aside at least 30 seconds for kissing, touching or a couple of words - it makes all the difference.

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