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What is prostate stimulation?

The prostate is a small gland in men, located just below the bladder. It is usually known as part of the reproductive system, since it produces the fluid that makes up sperm. But this area has another, less obvious but very pleasurable function - it can be very sensitive to stimulation.

It is sometimes called the “P-spot” because it can produce very vivid orgasms when properly stimulated; and the sensations are often described as deeper and longer lasting than normal penis stimulation. For many people, this is a real coup: some feel a full-blown internal orgasm for the first time.

How to stimulate the prostate : a guide for beginners

If you are seriously interested in the topic of prostate stimulation, it is important to know: there are several ways to do it - both internal and external. The key is to do it right, so that it's both pleasurable and safe.

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I‍nternal stimulation

This is the most common and effective way to get to the “P-spot”. The prostate is located about 4-6 centimeters inside the anal canal, closer to the front wall; so you can reach it with your finger or a special toy designed for anal stimulation.

Before you start, it is worth a little preparation, where the most important thing is to relax. You or your partner can start with a light massage of the perineum - this is the area between the scrotum and the anus. This will help the body to get in touch and the muscles to relax.

Lubricant is a must, so don't spare lube - apply it both on your finger or toy, and on the entrance itself. This will prevent unpleasant sensations and make the process comfortable. Insert your finger or stimulator slowly, without sudden movements. Once inside, move gently, as if you were making a “come here” gesture - this type of pressure is often the best way to stimulate the prostate.

It's easy to find: you'll feel a small rounded bulge on the front wall of the rectum. Once there, you can experiment with the rhythm, force and direction of the movements to see what feels best.

External stimulation

If the idea of internal penetration doesn't appeal to you yet, no problem. The prostate can be activated externally, through the skin. Pay attention to the perineum - the area between the testicles and the anus. A light pressure massage or vibration at this point can have a very pleasant effect, especially if you are already in a state of arousal.

Many men report that such external stimulation, in combination with oral sex or masturbation, increases the sensation. You can use your fingers, a massager or a special external toy - it all depends on your preferences and mood.

What a prostate stimulator is and why it is needed at all

A prostate stimulator is a sex toy specially designed to reach this sensitive point inside the body and properly affect it. As a rule, such toys have a curved shape, which allows you to easily enter and immediately get into the desired zone without unnecessary discomfort.

How to choose?

Now there are a bunch of different options: from simple models without vibration, to advanced devices with pulsation, control from your phone and other chips. If you're just starting out, don't get something big or complicated. It's better to start with a compact, not scary model, and then, when you realize what you like, move on to more advanced options.

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Do not forget about lubrication and hygiene

Any anal practice requires plenty of lubricant - this is not a case where you can “dry”. Apply lubricant both on the stimulator itself and on the entrance area. And, of course, the toy must be washed well - before and after use, preferably with an antibacterial agent or a special cleaner for sex toys.

Look for your own

Even if the toy is made with anatomy in mind, everyone's body reacts differently; so try different angles, positions, rhythm - and don't be afraid to experiment. Sometimes what works is not what is written in the instructions, but what you accidentally feel yourself.

What prostate stimulation feels like and what to compare it to in general

The way a man perceives prostate stimulation can vary greatly - it all depends on sensitivity, relaxation and the specific technique. But one thing is certain: for many, it is something completely different from the standard penile orgasm.

Many describe the sensations as deep, intense, and long-lasting; so it's not just a “peak” and release - it's as if there's a wave that comes from within and spills over the entire body. There is often a feeling of pleasurable pressure or fullness that heightens arousal. For some, the prostate orgasm is so bodily and powerful that it feels almost “out of category” - as if it's not just pleasure, but a full-blown experience.

One interesting trick is that penile stimulation is not necessary at all. Many people reach orgasm just by exposing the prostate - without touching the penis. This opens up a bunch of new sensations that can complement (or replace) the usual sex and become a real revelation in terms of bodily experience.

How to use gel for prostate stimulation and why it is needed at all

If you want to intensify the sensations during prostate stimulation, you should try special gels that make this area more sensitive. They add brightness and make each touch more tangible and intense - especially if you are already a little familiar with this process.

Where to start?

First, apply a small amount of gel directly to your anal area. You can gently massage it in so that it starts to take effect and your skin gets used to the new sensation. Some gels give a slight warming or tingling effect - this is normal and usually only enhances the experience.

If you are planning internal stimulation (with a finger or a toy), don't forget to apply the gel there - on the stimulator itself. This will ensure contact with the desired area immediately after insertion.

Proceed gently

When everything is ready, start the stimulation with light movements - don't rush. Thanks to the gel, even a little pressure can feel much brighter, so there's no need to be harsh. Gradually you'll feel your body responding and you can adjust the movements to your own sensations.

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